No-fault, six months minimum, and a paperwork sequence that rewards preparation. Here is the shape of it.
California requires only "irreconcilable differences." You do not need your spouse's agreement to divorce, and you cannot be forced to prove fault — affairs, addiction, and misconduct matter only where they bear on custody, support, or the misuse of marital money.
A divorce cannot be final until six months after your spouse is served with the petition. Filing early starts that clock even if nothing else is resolved. Nothing forces a case to end at six months — that is a floor, not a schedule.
Both spouses must exchange sworn declarations listing every asset, debt, and source of income. Hiding an asset can reopen a settled judgment years later. This is where most of the real work of a divorce happens.
An uncontested case with a full marital settlement agreement can finalize right at the six-month mark. Every contested issue — custody, a business, a house, support — adds hearings and months.
You do not have to wait for the divorce to be final to have orders on custody, support, and who pays which bills. Requests for temporary orders are usually heard within weeks.
The large majority of cases resolve by negotiation or mediation. But settlements are better when the other side knows you are prepared to try the case — which is why preparation starts on day one, not after talks fail.
Tax returns, pay stubs, bank and retirement statements, and a rough list of debts. You do not need it organized to have a first consultation — but you will need it eventually, and gathering it early shortens everything.
Once a case is filed, automatic restraining orders limit what either spouse can do with marital property and insurance. Unilateral moves before filing get scrutinized too.
Social media posts and "private" messages are discoverable and routinely appear as exhibits in custody and support disputes.
The rules behind the timeline — and behind the disclosure obligations that carry the most risk.
Authorities current as of 2025. Case law changes; nothing here is a substitute for advice on your own facts.
This guide is general information — a consultation is where it becomes advice.